Wednesday, January 23, 2008

Proud To Be Pinoy!!!


I remember the time when I first read "My Father Goes To Court" by Carlos Bulosan and "How My Brother Leon Brought Home A Wife" by Manuel E. Arguilla. I think that was way back in high school during one or two of our English classes. The class was divided into two groups to discuss these short stories. I also remember that I was practically dead at that time due to boredom. English was our last class for that day and I couldn't wait to go home. All I did during that time was talk to my friends and not participate in the group discussion. After all, the class genius was my groupmate so I was assured that our group grade for the activity would be high.

Almost five years later, here I am again, reading these two stories. Like before, I wasn't that enthusiastic with the idea of reading short novels. But after a while, I actually enjoyed reading them and listening to the class discussions that followed. I liked how the authors of both stories portrayed Filipinos with simplicity and innocence. It's amazing how I've been living in the Philippines for eighteen years and yet I still am not familiar with some of its cultures and traditions. I guess that I was just too busy looking at the Philippines' political and economical problems to just stop and see that there's still some beauty left in the Philippines.

Anyway, the two stories focused on the Philippine culture and some of the many unique attributes of Filipinos. In "My Father Goes To Court", it showed there that Filipinos can be very optimistic through problems. It showed in the story that even through great adversity, Filipinos can still find humor in the situation. The story also showed that Filipinos have different beliefs. Some Filipinos take superstitions very seriously. "How My Brother Brought Home A Wife" also portrayed the different cultures and traits of Filipinos. It showed in the story that Filipinos are very hospitable and they follow certain traditions with regards to marriage.

My family also follows traditions that are sometimes weird to me. We are a very happy bunch of people. Before my grandmother migrated to the U.S.A., my cousins and I would go to our grandparents' house for the weekend. We call that our "weekly family reunion". Sometimes we would bring clothes so that we can easily persuade our parents to let us stay the night. We would also cry when Sunday comes because that meant it's time to go home. Aside from that, everynight we would call our Lolos and Lolas to bid them goodnight.

When visitors come to our house, we let them eat the "best food" in the house. Even if what's left for us would be sardines or corned beef. Sometimes, we would let them eat first and we would only eat after they've gone. Being a Christian family, we pray together before eating and sleeping. Every Saturday, we have our family hour where we study the Bible and discuss God's word. Every morning, we have our quiet time and daily devotions. That's like our "alone time" where we have our personal time with God. We would also go to church as a family.

Today, I still see some Filipinos who still follow their traditional rituals. In Baguio, I have friends who are part of indigenous tribes and they have different beliefs. Some Filipinos have different religious perspectives. Like in the stories, there are many Filipinos who are hospitable and optimistic. I'm thankful because I had a chance to read these stories again because it gave me a different perspective about Philippine lifestyle. What makes the Filipinos different in character makes them beautiful. =)

2 comments:

rubysoho said...

"simplicity and innocence" (2nd paragraph)--i do think your use of these terms to define how the authors portrayed the filipino is appropriate. innocence of, perhaps, western preferences for individuality and more of adherence to what is collective (community). our native beliefs and customs allow us to move seamlessly through society. at least that's one good thing about going "traditional."

ChEzZiE said...

"I guess that I was just too busy looking at the Philippines' political and economical problems to just stop and see that there's still some beauty left in the Philippines." MEjo negative ha? xempre maganda pa din sa philippines, hehe..

Minus the corruption, pollution, over population and kung ano ano pang ion.. hehe.. well mag comment ka saken dahil ka-group kita.. loKa.. hehe.. =) go isay!